There is a universal truth in management: it is not what you know that gets you in trouble, but what you think does not matter. Especially when it comes to team performance.
We are not talking about big things, like unallocated KPIs or organizational charts that take revenge. We are talking about details that some managers ignore in good faith and that, paradoxically, gradually undermine the team’s performance.
Here are seven invisible saboteurs, which many managers do not consider powerful enough to deserve their attention, until the entire team implodes.
1. Systematic lack of real, authentic recognition
Let’s say a colleague does an exceptional job. You say a sober “Thank you!”, possibly a passing “Well done”. You are a manager, not a middle school teacher. Right?
It is just that the lack of visible, authentic, personalized recognition is one of the biggest sources of long-term demotivation. We are not talking about standing ovations, but about those gestures and words that show: I saw you. I appreciate you. What you do matters.
When authentic recognition is lacking, people do not necessarily stop. But they pull the emotional handbrake. They start delivering only the bare minimum: that is, what we call quiet quitting today. And if this lack of recognition persists, it's not just demotivation that comes. Disengagement comes.
2. Not intervening because "the team is doing well"
The modern manager admires autonomy, and that is very good. However, poorly understood autonomy is a kind of beautifully packaged emotional abandonment.
When you do not intervene, you do not ask, you don't give feedback, but you're just glad that you don't "have problems," you create, without wanting to, a vacuum of attention and meaning.
It is like leaving a greenhouse unattended just because the plants are still alive. In the absence of a real presence, people wonder if they still matter.
You will notice that performance does not suddenly drop, but quietly withers. Until performance becomes history.
3. Non-existent or purely formal one-on-one meetings
"We don't have time for personal coffees, we have work to do." Yet, the most performing teams have leaders who make time for one-on-one conversations about what matters to each person: motivation, meaning, personal blockages, and perspectives.
These discussions are not a waste of time, but investments in trust. They create that space in which people dare to say what they think and ask for what they need. This is not about luxury coaching, but about relational hygiene.
When these discussions are missing, colleagues become "roles," not people. And the team, from a living organism, becomes a factory of deliverables. Temporarily effective, in the long term... fragile.
4. The innocent irony that corrodes trust
There are leaders who make jokes, and there are leaders who “joke”. The difference is that the former build an atmosphere. The latter, without wanting to, destroy courage and psychological safety.
“Bravo, you managed to send an email without mistakes. Here is progress!” This moment seems cute, but it conveys: ”you have no real value”.
Passive-aggressive humor is the antechamber of professional sarcasm. People laugh. Still, they remember and, over time, they become more reserved. More silent. More distant.
Jokes that bite in the form of a smile leave traces. They are not visible in the performance report, but they are felt in the evasive looks, in the lack of initiative and in the feedback that no longer comes.
5. The double standard and its justifications
“I can be late for meetings because I have back-to-back meetings. You can’t.”
“I don’t have time to fill out the CRM, but it’s essential for you.”
Few leaders understand how quickly authority is diluted when one’s own behavior becomes elastic. Not because people are critical. It is because they are attentive.
When rules are applied “only downwards”, you do not have leadership. You have a double standard.
Moreover, what is perceived as an exception for the leader becomes the rule for others.
Instead of coherence, frustration appears. Instead of trust, silence sets in. And instead of initiative, people choose to stay in the convenient shelter of conformity.
6. Tolerating toxicity “because the person is performing”
You have that colleague with spectacular results, but with an onion-thin team player attitude. You keep him on the team “because he delivers”.
Reality? Every day you tolerate his behavior, you are transmitting: performance justifies disrespect.
The result? Valuable people who leave without scandal. They just look for a healthy environment, or, more often, they stay and become silent. They no longer propose ideas. They no longer contradict. They no longer take risks.
It becomes safer to retreat into the gray area of conformism. Then, little by little, the team loses exactly what it had most valuable: initiative, creativity, courage. Everything that cannot be quantified, but makes a difference.
7. Lack of that humor that relaxes and energizes
Authentic, warm, intelligent humor is a sign of psychological safety. In high-performing teams, people laugh with gusto, not with caution.
Managers who are too serious, who set the tone serious and solemn, involuntarily cultivate an atmosphere of "presence".
Nevertheless, people do not give their best in a bitter environment. They need one where they can be human, without apologizing.
Where a good joke is savored, not suspected, and a smile is not controlled like a grimace in a passport photo. Healthy laughter is a sign of collective health, not frivolity.
Because a team in which there is healthy laughter thinks clearly, collaborates easily and overcomes difficulties together.
In conclusion
Managers talk about strategies, processes, efficiency. But team performance decreases mainly from the systematic ignoring of things that managers do not consider "worthy of attention".
When these small habits, silences or avoidances accumulate, the team does not protest. It does not write a memo. It does not ask for a feedback session. It just slows down. Delivers results without enthusiasm, and in the most discreet way possible, it loses its soul.
You may not see it in the scorecard, but you will feel it in the atmosphere. In the silences in meetings. In the lack of initiative. In the correct but lackluster answers. Sometimes in the silence that follows another “Yes, boss!”
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